You look for shiny objects, those who meet your fantasy ideal (i.e.-laundry list), or those who are measured by some abject social standard. Bittolast: I may be shot on the spot, but I agree with you! They don't know how old I am in real life, so they see me as a person not an age. There are men on here who are in their 60's who's age limits are 30 - 45....I think women are far worse than men online in this regard. After all, it is the person you may fall in love with not the standards you set on dating websites. I have news for you, whatever those little nit-picky things you have walled yourself in with don't matter. Although, men do the same...women can be and ARE just as bad! I have much better luck meeting and attracting men in a sports bar or happy hour setting than on here. I have had men tell me that if they had met me in real life and didn't know how old I was, they would date me in a heartbeat.since they knew how old I am, they just couldn't get past it!My girlfriends all have a laundry list of what they are looking for. It's the person, the personality, the way someone talks and walks.a photograph (ummm...photoshop anyone? I do have to agree we rule each other out more easily on the internet. Now hold on- men do not corner the market on having standards for looks. I have male friends I am not attracted to- no matter how nice they are?
Even if your 'Friday night out' consisted of visiting all the pubs and clubs in town, there is still a limit on the number of people you could meet.
With online dating websites, you are no longer constrained by geography, and the only limit is how many people are on an websites database.
If like many people you're a bit jaded with the pub and club scene, New Friends4U is just one of many online dating websites for singles offering the facility for members to create a personal online dating profile.
Not only do we offer online dating for singles but the opportunity to offer online social friends/penpals, and online sports & dating partners. Most households in the UK, Europe, United States, Australia and many other worldwide countries now have computers and are online, there's a good chance they'll come to the same conclusion as you, and start thinking about joining online dating websites The number of people you meet in the pub, bar and club is limited by how many people you can squeeze through the doors.
Women think screening is the solution, but its just the opposite; screening IS the problem with dating sites.
I have seen so many profiles with headings such as "where is Mr. Well, I'll tell you what ladies, whoever he is for you, you likely ignored or "unread deleted" his well written delightful message. Seek someone to satisfy social standards and frustration will be your only life partner.
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Let's add the fact that some of us are not 19 years old sneaking in with fake ID anymore!
I meet way more people going out because I screen the heck out of guys here... Going to clubs, parties, social gatherings, and bars is better. It's because they are getting hit on by more**** then they can handle on this site.
For me, the tension of whether there is mutual attraction is not an issue in a club. Also, some people say they are bored with bars and clubs.