When you’re a woman who’s into geek guys (or just a little geek-curious) the difficulties grow exponentially. Take it from a dyed-in-the-wool geek who’s seen and done just about every variation of the nerdy meet-cute you can come up with.
Take the usual difficulties in meeting a man and throw in some painfully shy guys who’re used to rejection and mockery from the opposite sex and trying to win their hearts has gone from challenging to Nintendo hard, even when you already share a mutual love of Joss Whedon and retro video games. I’ve been the guy who desperately wanted the girls to approach him and the one who’s done the approaching.
I recently heard a woman lament, "Remember the days when we just met people out in public? " I'm here to tell you that, yes, it did and does still happen!
There are plenty of single people to meet if you want to take a digital break. Pick Up Single Women It may seem counter-intuitive to direct you to women while you're trying to find a new S.
Strong eye contact followed by a welcoming smile and open body language will help break through that continuous maelstrom of rationalizations and convince them that come over and introduce themselves.
Hell, you may want to give them the “come here” nod, because they’re likely to not quite understand the “eye-contact, look away, look back and smile” sign. How many times have you been at a bar, party or book store, locked eyes with a hot geeky guy and given him your best come-hither stare, only to watch him turn back to the graphic novels?
By doing this, you're more likely to meet new people that will make your social life more interesting, and you're more likely to meet new good guys through their social network.2.
Enlist Your Married Friends Your married friends love to help you in the quest to meet great people to date since they've heard a number of your dating horror stories.You will never find someone as excited about his hobbies or interests as a geek and his eagerness to share them. Take a good look at the current crop of a-list and up-and-coming comedians: Patton Oswalt. Think of them as timid little deer that you’re trying to convince to come closer so you can pet their soft fur.They’re always on alert for danger signs, so you need to reassure them that everything is ok.(Obvious newsflash: looking bored or annoyed isn't the best way to meet new people.)The goal is to get outside your comfort zone, but to still be in a zone where you can enjoy yourself whether or not you make a romantic connection.Enjoying your life and focusing on not meeting new dates is ironically one of the great ways to meet new people.Dating sites and apps have become so popular that we all know someone who has found love online.