Here’s the problem: attractive women receive dozens – sometimes even hundreds – of messages in a single day.The key to making the cut is to zig while everyone else zags and stand out in her mind.
These 6 insider tips will help you get the hot girl’s attention online.
On any site that allows a subject line, make sure you lead off with something that gets her attention.
Instead, mention one thing that’s unique and interesting about her that most of the guys missed and she’ll be putty in your hands.
There are dating experts and pickup artists that will tell you a girl likes to be challenged and will respond to an insult faster than a compliment.
When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.
“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.
You might get a response but coming from a woman who has been a dating coach for nearly 10 years, I can say confidently you will catch more bees with honey and they’re more likely to stick around.
Pictures speak a thousand words, so let your photos show her how amazing your life is and how much she wishes she could be a part of it.
In fact, looking away from the camera as if something interesting just caught your eye will drive her wild with intrigue. You’d be surprised by how many men send out messages to women they find attractive without actually reading their profiles.
Not sending a personalized message greatly reduces your chance of a response with the hot girl online.
When men see a woman that looks like a model, far too many of them see her as an object.