In other words, this same loyalty that seemed like such a good thing became a source of resentment if either one of us felt betrayed in any way.Actually, I think if we had both been a little more mature we might have overcome the problems of sharing an astrological sign, and we might have been able to become true soul mates.However, the similarities that drew us together ended up being the sore spots in our relationship.
BUT because he is a Cancer, he's looking for a girl that he can truly, truly trust. We have a lot of things in common, and I find the closest to it is the fact we don't get so emotionally attached, we just have a likeness to one another that makes the other happy.
I think a reason that adds to him liking me MORE is because he really feels like he can trust me - he knows that if I'm not sleeping with him because of my morals, he can trust me to not sleep around after we're married. they tell me Aaron oooo I've never had someone like you dat cares for me like you do. & there I am like a big teddy gram I love you too baby.& im very very serious when those words come out my mouth. I hug, touch, kiss, rub, bite, hold, & lick on all parts of the body. but when the marriage began to sour the inner hurt of Cancer's began to strike. the wall of protection holds up as well as the shell goes into hiding. We just like being together, it's as simple as it seems.
Me and my current ex of over seven years, were so in synch with each other, to the point that it was scary. I wish that this relationship could have worked as he does too. But it's hard for me to be "just his friend", after being involved for that length of time. But he seems to be insensitive where I am sensitive. Aries is a nice guy and I like him a lot, but I don't think that this relationship will work out. What seemed to pull us apart, eventually, was how young we were when we got married, and probably our other influencing signs.
He has Scorpio rising while I have Sagittarius rising.
I know that I have never met another person I felt understood me better, and vice versa.
I'm also a female born under the sign of Cancer who, through coincidence or kismet, first fell in love with a fellow Cancer-sign boyfriend.
I have a strong need to socialize, be a part of a community, have my independence and not be held down.
He is much more comfortable living a quiet, introspective life, branching out every now and then, but quickly retreating back home for safety.
but watch out a lot of girls try to take advantage of a Cancer man. you love because you know its right & you want to be loved so u give it. im a Cancer 24 yr old girl, I met Joshua Cancer 24 yr old guy about 7 years ago, didn't see him again till June 2 ,2010. When I first met him he was very quiet, and did not try to anything with me but juts maybe a what's up on a myspace message once, now he found me on facebook and has been trying to hangout.