I think since it was her first time dating too she wasn't sure what to expect from his end (how often he'd call, how to tell if he's interested, etc) because every person's standards are different. If so, he may have gotten every bit out of it that he wanted. Thanks again." then that's not coming off strong at all.
Basically, she wasn't into that "playing games" sorta thing, but I don't think (based on what she told me) she was overly aggressive either. From a guys perspective, I get scared away very quickly if a girl comes on too strong. If a guy likes the girl and vice versa, her/him doing his part won't look as desperate. I had a guy friend who dated a girl a few times and she started talking marriage, wanting 2.6 kids, house with picket fence, yadda yadda..maybe THAT was a little aggressive lol Well when I said thank you notes they were like thanks emails/texts for taking her out, had a good time, lets do something again, etc - isn't that a norm after a date? I don't think she should wait around for him to call, cause it looks like he won't.
However, if you’re getting the vibe that he’s actually looking to propose in the next week, that’s a different story.
If he’s coming on too strong, do him the favor of letting him know that you’re flattered, but that you’d like to slow the pace a little bit.
In complaint #7, women say that each wants to feel as though her man is taking an interest in her, paying attention to what she likes, and that he wants to know what is going on in her life. Sadly, extremely jealous men are usually not born – they’re made, often by bad previous experiences in which they were cheated on. Angry/Possessive, tell him how his jealous behavior makes you feel.
So we can help keep the monsters away by being faithful and true to men we’re in relationships with, Ladies! Reassure him that you’ve never cheated (if that’s true) and that he has nothing to worry about.
The cliche about the butterfly is actually pretty accurate: Catch one in your hand, but don’t hold on too tight or you’ll kill it.
Keep a loose grip and if it flies away it will be happy to return.
These men can often tend to be “demanding and overbearing” say women who have experienced this personality on first dates.
Men, have a little self-awareness of how you’re coming across.
Based on what I know, I don't think she overdid anything--did the basic thank you follow up notes, and they were only talking once a week.