With men, she might complain that they just “don’t get her,” but the truth is that she’s giving them every reason to head for the hills with her off-handed comments and negativity.She hasn’t mastered the life skill of introspection, so she’s blinded by her bitterness. People ask me all the time whether I offer dating and relationship coaching for single men. But I tell them that I help men by helping women who are dating after 40. ) One of the most transformational ways I support women is by helping you better understand GROWNUP men.
As a dater after 40, knowing this will help you as you meet and connect with men.
The Princess The Princess is confident, well put together, and very attractive. She still follows “The Rules” and requires that her man do what she wants, when she wants. She’s a scorekeeper, and she alone decides when he’s given enough to satisfy her…or when he hasn’t and is history.
It doesn’t occur to her that she might be the problem even though every date and relationship seems to end the same way.
Though a nice guy might try to break through and prove her wrong about men, he will give up out of exhaustion.
She picks fights, picks the wrong guys, or maneuvers relationships to end because it gives her control.
This “I’m never going to find a good relationship” gal leaves men unable to get any traction during courting or in a relationship.
Try as he might, the 60-year-old fabulous guy can’t measure up to her expectations because she’s looking for a man who doesn’t exist.
She gets stuck in affairs with men who never commit, and it’s often the nice guys who are interested in her who bear the brunt of her hurt and anger.
) Just like we can meet the same types of guy over and over, men can do the same with women.
Here are some of the types of women men deal with as they date and relate.
The Princess has an “I deserve it” attitude and has little or no concern for how she can make the other person happy.