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By not forgiving and loving, we are missing an opportunity to learn and grow emotionally and spiritually. We fear we will lose control over them by letting them be too relaxed with us. We want to place the blame for our dissatisfaction with ourselves or our lives on someone else who is "responsible".
Controlling others with negative emotions and a lack of love is more harmful to us that to others. Do we want to play these control games or risk losing control and experience pure love? We also need to choose between hiding behind the illusion that someone else can be held responsible for our reality, including being held to blame when things go wrong, and moving forward and taking responsibility for our past and present reality.
One response specifically asked for my subscribers’ opinions.
It was from a man who shared his experience closely related to the topic discussed.
Or maybe you were on the receiving end of a situation such as his.
He would like to hear your thoughts on his situation.Placing prerequisites on our forgiveness is not actually forgiveness.We are the ones who are suffering from our negative feelings associated with not being able to forgive and love.We, women aren’t the only ones who are confused by the behavior of our partners.Men, similarly to us, are often puzzled and want to know the reasons for their partner’s behavior.Here is an email from this man who wished to remain anonymous, so for the purpose of this article we’ll call him Ken (not his real name).