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I want to stress how important it is for you to understand that we’re all unique individuals. Perhaps he can’t help but stare at every girl walking by.
It’s important that we tackle the most common symptoms one by one. Not just for the Borderline you have feelings for, but for all of us.
They receive feedback and criticism objectively – they don’t take it personally.
It doesn’t result in arguments, and they continue about their day unscathed.
men to act like sociopaths and narcissists because “it’s what women are attracted to.
Now that’s not to say that this is what’s going on with your boyfriend at all.
But she was also making the mistake of getting defensive and walking on egg shells.
So I simply told her that she needs to approach the problem with him objectively – she needs to point out the fact that he’s always assuming and that’s his big issue.
But on the inside, you both have similar insecurities and mindsets and what not – at least, this is what you are are, so they put on a mask when they meet people. He might appear to be charming, dashing and have dozens of women chasing him.
But when that masks comes off, you experience who he really is.
This leads to inefficient work flow, lack of communication with team members and those on the front lines, mediocre products instead of high quality ones, and overall a loss in revenue.