Of course, the music we like to listen to is important. Visitors of your page can play the music for free and vice versa. You are likely to discover new music you will love. They experience the world in a similar way as you, and so you have a better chance of getting along. The day after an awful date (with a man who listened only to 80's hair bands), I was convinced that music could predict compatibility and I set out to prove my theory.
(It is not important that you listen to or like the same music.) See our compatibility indicator. Those years gave me the chance to closely observe a variety of music personalities.
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Location: Townsville, Queensland Matched: September 2011 Danica: I was super keen to meet that special person and I thought that living in a capital city would maximise my chances of this.
Instead, I was finding that I was continuously disappointed by the men I was meeting; there was never a spark and I couldn’t see a future with them.
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A 4-note match means you have the highest likelihood of compatibility. Eventually, before I would consider making a first date, I asked the guy to take the quiz (in the name of social science).
= highest likelihood of compatibility = it's risky To Learn More: Visit the blog to read a variety of posts on music and compatibility observations, research and relationship advice.1. It quickly became clear that I got along much better with people who like music as much as I do, and that my connection was a lot weaker with people who didn't much care for music.
Due to the time difference he was asleep but by the time I woke up the next morning he had sent one back.
We started emailing that day and by the end of the week we had figured out we could talk via an app on our phones, we knew we liked each other and we clicked really well - even though we are from different ends of the earth!
If our compatibility ranking did not score 3 or 4 notes (a high or good likelihood of compatibility, according to my system), I bowed out of the date whenever possible. When I began only to date men who shared my interest in music and a high compatibility score, it didn't matter if I felt no romantic spark on the first date. The conclusion was clear: music plays a big role in predicting how well two people will get along for the long-term.
And, I found that listening to the same music is NOT essential for a couple to get along; rather, their enthusiasm for music needs to be similar. At most, it might help you find a healthy, loving relationship with someone who brings out your best. Many years ago I began collecting music quiz results from couples.
Over 85% of the time, couples in healthy, long-term relationships scored within a 10% range of one another.