There are exceptions, for example when you can only message one girl every ten minutes, in that case you could call it in essence a free dating site because you can in principle contact every girl you see there.
Now, you’re planning to date a girl in Thailand, not in Europe, so don’t expect the girl will pay a lot of money for a membership to talk to guys, no it’s you who has to pull out your creditcard.
The menu is simple with easy to watch pictures, the layout is pleasant, and it has a large number of girls in nearly every city in Thailand.
If you master your pick up skills in daily life (or what some call your day game), approaching a regular girl in the wild can be quite exciting and successful, but I know this is not for everyone, it also depends on your character, your creativity and your guts.
So overall, online dating is one of the most efficient ways to find a new Thai girl, whether that be for something serious or just for a fling.
Was it for Thai women in the past perhaps something to be ashamed of or to tell only your closest friends, nowadays online dating has become very accepted as a social phenomenon or perhaps even as a social activity as most Thai girls like to chat their time away.
Technology has in fact blurred the borders between online dating and online chatting: for example, you can use several smartphone applications to approach a total stranger digitally and thus chatting can seamlessly go over into dating.
One way or another, you always pay in Thailand: you pay for a girl, you pay for a membership with an online dating site or with me, you pay with your time to learn the tricks or you pay with your frustration when you wasted your time and effort on the wrong girl.
There's no and so there's nothing wrong with paying to make things work more efficiently for you.
So anyway, here's my best pick of online dating sites in Thailand for all you guys (Premium members: just scroll down, there are some good Thai dating sites and more tricks in the Insider section).
Thai friendly has grown from a starting dating site to one of Thailand’s largest in just a few years.
One consideration to stay with the free sites, if you're like me, is that on average they tend to perhaps attract some more girls who are in for something less serious while the paid sites attract more girls which are very serious or looking for marriage only, but that doesn't apply to all girls.