• Work • Sleep • Family • Friends • Fitness That’s a bold statement, but I’d have to agree it’s kind of true.
My opinion is that most men are doing it totally wrong. Therefore, the one thing that I’m always lacking is time.
Almost daily, I see some loser guy acting like a savage in order to get a woman’s attention. But the reality though is that when women meet me, they immediately start thinking I’m a player once they find out I’m an r&b singer. I’m a digital marketing analyst, a singer, songwriter, producer and as of last year, I’ve been documenting all of my music experiences via my blog and as a contributing writer to Digital Music News. Aside from that – I have very ambitious long term career goals, and I’m pretty busy trying to achieve them.
While it may seem unreasonable to drop over $1,000 on a music video to the average person, this is very necessary for advancing the career of an upcoming artist.
Thankfully, I have lots of skills I’ve been able to lean on to generate cash flow.
They understand that in order to be successful you absolutely have to invest in yourself, there’s just no way around it.
I have many artist friends that are investing quite a bit of coin into their personal careers.
Here’s a slide that came straight out of a presentation I gave to Mike King, founder of i Pull Rank.
I was interviewing for a role at his company and ended up getting hired as an SEO Analyst. And if there’s one thing I know a woman doesn’t like, it’s being kept waiting. I’m not the best with punctuality, but I try to be.
The reality is this: groupies don’t care about you when you’re on the come up, because you’re likely broke and struggling.
Sadly, the groupies are trying to weasel their way into the VIP at Gansevoort to get a glimpse at Trey Songz, not come to your show at some hole-in-the-wall joint. Let me further explain why actual dating as a musician is so hard.
It’s certainly understandable for a woman to think that groupies are readily accessible at any given moment, but that’s just simply not the case (see above).