I write at great length about how miserable these men make women. Even women who fully understand the risks will shut their eyes tight, hold their noses, and jump off the high dive for the dangerous thrill of it. Now I’m a graduate watching my friends going through the same transition…[but a man] has to own that part of himself.
How they can have tons of casual sex with tons of women at the same time and not get emotionally attached to any of them. See it to it’s fullest extent, and then make a decision on how he wishes to be., ”But I’m not fucking you tonight”.
Please see the thread about consequences of doing rootwork here: Can Spells Back-Fire, Blow Back, Reverse On Me, or Harm Me?
I know that sounds soooo retarded but I’m telling you with so many girls today that is the case.
Oh trust me, I understand I am supposed to be “molded” into a nice boy. So when I got to college, I flipped the script and guess what happened? Now my issue is that I’m a graduating senior about to leave college with a strong sense of HFS (hook-up fatigue syndrome) and when I get a girl who I honestly have feelings for I’m constantly battling to keep up my image of bad boy to not let her see my good boy….
The man in question and I have always felt we had so kind of connection or that there was something there that drawled us together. Both his 1st wife an 2nd/soon to be ex wife and I have the same middle names.
Many times he and I will say the same thing, we will jokingly say get out of my head.
As my Jamaican family says, we “Cut our eyes and pass it”.
The next weekend we did more than make out but still didn’t have sex.Mary Bee has giving me advice on a few tricks I am planning to do on my other post. Its just the waiting and such, I get these feeling and I know he is getting further away.Please do not start a new thread on the same topic. Becoming physically ill because you are working to keep someone faithful is not a consequence of your work unless doing the work stresses you out.You can make out with a boy the first night and he could become your boyfriend, but never after sex.Take out his phone, put your number in it, say “Call me” and walk away. If he calls you and you don’t respond and your text doesn’t say something like “in class ttyl”, what’s the point in talking to you? When a girl texts me her response instead of calling me back after I called her, she is officially deleted from my contact list. Why would I tell you how to flip a player, turn a cad, tame an asshole? Plus tbh i do like getting ass every once in awhile, and good boy Me doesn’t cut it in that department, so bad boy Me is what usually has to be shown.